find yourself

This means 意识到自己在…… (to realize that you are in a particular situation or place, or doing a particular thing, when you did not intend to).

  • He’ll find himself with no friends at all if he carries on behaving this way.
  • We fell asleep on the train and woke up to find ourselves in London.

This also means 寻找自我.

He spent a year in an ashram in India to find himself.